Sunday, March 4, 2012

My Journey - Changing the way how others think (Part 1)

After making my first bear on April 2009, I proudly showed my very first bear to my family, colleagues and relatives, at that time none of them were impress at all.

Sadly the level of appreciation for art, design and handicrafts in Singapore isn't there yet, it would take a few more years to grow. Upon completing my first bear named Rosy, I told my parents that I really love this art and wanted to make more, sadly at that time they disapprove because they feel that this is a waste of time and money, I should focus my time on my work and have more rest time. I know that they are looking after my best interest, but I have persisted and told them that this is what I want.

My friends and relatives weren't supportive as well, they won't even take a second look at my bears and I was deeply hurt. The only one that have trust and believe in me is my Teddy Bear teacher Emen Chen. Emen is an art teacher and has been coaching children art and bear making for many years. I met him 3 years ago at my old work place, I told him about my passion and interest to become a toy designer. That time was the happiest moment of my life when he agreed to be my mentor and I studied under him for a few months. Do you believe in fate? 8 years ago when I am a secondary school student, I chanced upon a website with bear making course (I did not manage to sign up because my parents disapprove) and much to my surprise later I found out that the teacher coaching that class was Emen. Isn't that funny how fate brought us together and I finally learn under his guidance :) Miracles do happen!

I told Emen that I want to be a bear artist and want to participate in the Singapore Teddy Bear Show just like the rest of the senior bear artists. Remembering the first time I went to the bear show, my jaws dropped and this came to my mind - "WOW I want to be one of them!" It was a great challenge because I started learning in April and the next show was in November, I have to be extremely hard  working to prepare for the show in just 6 months! Mission Impossible?

This is my work schedule everyday (for 6 months) - I woke up at 6am to start sewing, left house at 9am to work, back home from work at 7pm, start sewing at 8pm and slept at 2am. For the 6 months I slept only 4 hours everyday... my parents think I am insane but I know I AM NOT!

True enough my hard work paid off, I took just 6 months to learn bear making from scratch and participate in the Singapore Teddy Bear Show with an approximately 20+ bears on my table. On that big day, there were many visitors coming to look at my work I am so proud of myself. My family were at my table too. One guest came to my table and asked how long have I been making bears, I told her 6 months, she looked with an unbelievable expression on her face and said my work look as if I have been making for many years... I am so touched.

Emen on the other hand is a very kind man, he helped me sold my first bear at the show, this really give me a boost in confident on my work. Few hours before the show ends, my relatives came to the show. They looked at my table and the first question that popped was - how many bears were sold? Just at that same moment, a lady came to my table to purchase a bear, she is a savior? My relatives went speechless and disappeared from the hall. On that first bear show in 2009, I have 6 bears adopted :)

I always believe that if you know what you want in life, embrace it. It might not be easily, but if you persist in believing then it will come to you one day. My parents are now very supportive and will appear on every bear shows I attend. My relatives also now looked at my bears with respect.
If we don't let others influence your path, they might just decide to follow along too.

I hope you enjoy my story :)
(Thank you Joanne for helping me vetting through this post :)

My first bear show in Singapore

My brother, mum and me

Singapore Teddy Bear Show in 2010


Hugs,
Wayne

13 comments:

  1. Me ha encantado conocer la historia de como empezaste a hacer ositos, has tenido mucho teson y eso tiene su compensacion.
    Ahora eres una gran artista y toidos te tienen mucho respeto.
    Tus trabajos son fantasticos y hasta tu familia se ha dado cuenta de que eres una gran artista.
    Una historia preciosa de superacion.
    besitos ascension

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  2. Wayne, what a lovely story. If you believe in something hard enough, and are willing to do the work you will succeed. Well done.
    Hugs
    Kay

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  3. What a lovely story Wayne and thank you for sharing it with all of us! I am glad your heart lead you down the path of bear making. I feel this is the best job in the world and we are the luckiest people to be making them! Your bears are lovely!

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  4. Hello Wayne, I was invited to SIngapore in 2003 to teach teddy bear making /needle felting. I wish you had been designing teddy bears then and I could have met you, as you are just the enthusiastic type of teddy bear artist who I like to work with! Your story of dedication is very inspiring and you will go very far in this field. Congratulations on your success and I look forward to many great new developments from you!
    Bobbie Ripperger

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  5. Wonderful article Wayne congrats on your success and for your family coming around and supporting you. Glad to see you didn't let their disapproval stop you from following your dreams. Keep up the great work!!

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  6. I love this post. I am so happy that you followed your heart, and that your family is following now with you. You are very lucky to have found Emen. What an amazing teacher he has been. Not many are so lucky as to find a mentor.

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  7. Thank you everyone, your words make me feel good and I am glad that you like my story! I should write more again soon :)

    Bobbie, what a shame that I am still a small boy when you are here in Singapore! It's my loss for not having to attend your workshop :( Please visit us again soon and I hope to meet you soon.

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  8. What a great post, Wayne! I am so glad that you persevered in your bear making. Your work is distinctive and so well done. I need to take a cue from you and work hard at what I want to do. So many things in life get in my way, and I must attend to them, but I want to create my artwork too. It keeps me happy and going ahead. God must have been happy to bring you and Emen together so you could learn to use your talents. That is exciting!

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  9. Hi, Wayne,
    It's really nice post. I 'm reading your blog for quite some time but as usually I'm silent. This time I was touched by your story..maybe because I had the same way to bear making. In fact I still have. In my country people do no understand this "childish" hobby. So we need to have enough strength to go ahead. Good luck with you bear making!

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  10. Thank you so much Debora and Rasa for commenting here and coming back =) Your comments are important to me, at least I knew someone is reading them! and I will be very happy even if you just send me a "Hi" on comment box! Thank you for liking my blog, I think "we" artist should come together and inspire each another. They will keep us moving. I will need inspirations for all the other artists as well.

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  11. What an inspiring story, I'm so glad I read your post it has really brightened my day and inspired me to keep creating even if not everyone around me agrees with my choices to make bears.
    Thank you so much for sharing your artistic and bear-making story with everyone =) I'm so glad I read this today!
    Hugs!
    Gabriele

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  12. What an inspiring story, I'm so glad I read your post it has really brightened my day and inspired me to keep creating even if not everyone around me agrees with my choices to make bears.
    Thank you so much for sharing your artistic and bear-making story with everyone =) I'm so glad I read this today!
    Hugs!
    Gabriele

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  13. I am not sure why, but I have just published my reply post and it has showed up twice. Sorry! Not all that computer savvy lol.

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